{"id":6539,"date":"2015-04-20T00:05:57","date_gmt":"2015-04-20T07:05:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/?p=6539"},"modified":"2015-04-19T13:12:23","modified_gmt":"2015-04-19T20:12:23","slug":"abimelech-and-abraham","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/2015\/04\/20\/abimelech-and-abraham\/","title":{"rendered":"Abimelech and Abraham"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><em>And Abraham journeyed from there to the South, and dwelt between Kadesh and Shur, and stayed in Gerar.  Now Abraham said of Sarah his wife, \u201cShe is my sister.\u201d And Abimelech king of Gerar sent and took Sarah.<br \/>\nBut God came to Abimelech in a dream by night, and said to him, \u201cIndeed you are a dead man because of the woman whom you have taken, for she is a man\u2019s wife.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>But Abimelech had not come near her; and he said, \u201cLord, will You slay a righteous nation also?  Did he not say to me, \u2018She is my sister\u2019? And she, even she herself said, \u2018He is my brother.\u2019 In the integrity of my heart and innocence of my hands I have done this.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>And God said to him in a dream, \u201cYes, I know that you did this in the integrity of your heart. For I also withheld you from sinning against Me; therefore I did not let you touch her.  Now therefore, restore the man\u2019s wife; for he is a prophet, and he will pray for you and you shall live. But if you do not restore her, know that you shall surely die, you and all who are yours.\u201d<br \/>\nSo Abimelech rose early in the morning, called all his servants, and told all these things in their hearing; and the men were very much afraid.  (Genesis 20:1-8)<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Abraham lied to Abimelech.  Oh sure, Sarah was his half sister, but what mattered in their relationship was the fact that Sarah was his wife.  But Abraham was afraid\u2014which of course is the motivation for all lying.  He imagined the worst of Abimelech and the other people of his land, assuming that they were so wicked that they would kill him so that they could steal what mattered most to him: his beautiful wife.  He didn\u2019t trust them, and he didn\u2019t trust God.<\/p>\n<p>Despite Abraham\u2019s lies, however, God protected Abimelech from doing something that Abimelech had never had any intention of doing in the first place.  He didn\u2019t want to take another man\u2019s wife and was appalled by Abraham\u2019s actions.  But God showed them mercy, and more importantly, he showed Abraham mercy.  He protected his wife, despite Abraham\u2019s poor choices. And he protected Abraham.  Abimelech didn\u2019t kill him or even curse him.  Instead, Abimelech paid him a thousand shekels of silver\u2014about 25 pounds\u2014and gave him cattle, sheep, and slaves.  Abraham lied, put a king and his people in jeopardy from God and put his wife into the arms of another man\u2014and wound up richer because of it.<\/p>\n<p>Abraham was spared from what he deserved and got instead what he didn\u2019t deserve. Abimelech was spared as well.  The story of Abraham and Abimelech is an odd illustration of mercy and grace.<\/p>\n<div class='kindleWidget kindleLight' ><img src=\"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/plugins\/send-to-kindle\/media\/white-15.png\" \/><span>Send to Kindle<\/span><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And Abraham journeyed from there to the South, and dwelt between Kadesh and Shur, and stayed in Gerar. Now Abraham said of Sarah his wife, \u201cShe is my sister.\u201d And Abimelech king of Gerar sent and took Sarah. 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