{"id":3054,"date":"2012-12-26T00:05:03","date_gmt":"2012-12-26T08:05:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/?p=3054"},"modified":"2012-12-26T02:24:56","modified_gmt":"2012-12-26T10:24:56","slug":"complaining-is-okay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/2012\/12\/26\/complaining-is-okay\/","title":{"rendered":"Complaining is Okay"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Accepting God\u2019s will does not mean no complaining.  Feeling the need to complain when things don&#8217;t go as you&#8217;d like is part of being a normal human being; and it is important to be honest with God rather than to pretend.  Job\u2019s life had turned from wonderful to horrible in a matter of days.  It was nothing that Job had done or not done.  He was a good man.  In fact, God himself said that Job was righteous and that the death of all his children, loss of wealth, and the loss of his health was \u201cwithout cause.\u201d  Job\u2019s friends were convinced that he\u2019d committed some horrible sin and if only he\u2019d confess, all could be well again.  Job knew better and simply complained about his fate.  He was willing to accept whatever came his way, commenting at one point, \u201cthe Lord gives and the Lord takes away, blessed be the name of the Lord.\u201d  But that didn\u2019t keep him from voicing how he felt about his circumstances.  He didn\u2019t try to pretend he was okay, or that he wasn\u2019t angry.  He told God that he was unhappy with him and that he thought he\u2019d done him wrong.  In the end, God agreed with him, telling Job\u2019s \u201cfriends\u201d that their ideas about God and what was going on were completely wrong, in contrast to Job whose words had been right. (Job 1:13-22, 9:27-10:1, 42:7-8)<\/p>\n<p>\tSome Christians get the mistaken idea that they are supposed to be happy regardless of what happens and that it is somehow sinful to get mad at God, let alone to admit to it or to tell him so.  But Job tells us that God values honesty in his relationships.  After all, he knows what we\u2019re really thinking anyway.  Why pretend?  Lying isn\u2019t exactly a virtue, whether we\u2019re doing it to ourselves or to a friend or to God.<\/p>\n<div class='kindleWidget kindleLight' ><img src=\"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-content\/plugins\/send-to-kindle\/media\/white-15.png\" \/><span>Send to Kindle<\/span><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Accepting God\u2019s will does not mean no complaining. Feeling the need to complain when things don&#8217;t go as you&#8217;d like is part of being a normal human being; and it is important to be honest with God rather than to &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/2012\/12\/26\/complaining-is-okay\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_s2mail":"yes"},"categories":[18,17,16],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3054"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3054"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3054\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3057,"href":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3054\/revisions\/3057"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3054"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3054"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nettelhorst.com\/blog1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3054"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}